AI girlfriend guides for memory, safety, and choosing
Get clear answers about AI girlfriends, privacy, memory, calls, dates, and the questions worth asking before you choose an AI companion.
Use these guides to understand AI girlfriend apps, protect your information, compare products, and see what Aries lets you do with your girlfriend.
Learn what an AI girlfriend can do
The AI girlfriend guide covers chat, calls, selfies, personality, memory, and activities. It also explains what to check before you give an app personal information or pay for a subscription.
Check privacy before sharing personal information
The AI girlfriend safety guide covers stored conversations, model providers, photos, voice, location, age limits, account deletion, and notification controls.
The Aries privacy page explains what Aries stores, why memory requires storage, and how OpenRouter routes requests to inference providers that do not retain prompts or train on them.
See what your girlfriend can remember
The long-term memory page lists the information Aries can remember about you, your girlfriend, and your time together. It explains how you correct an old preference, cancel a plan, or remove something you no longer want saved.
Explore Aries features
How Aries works starts with choosing a girlfriend and follows the relationship through chat, calls, selfies, dates, and saved memories. The feature overview gives you a shorter summary.
Choose a feature:
- Dates in real places: choose a venue, time, cost, route, and activity with your girlfriend.
- Voice calls: continue the same conversation and plans when you call.
- Selfies and photos: share part of your day and save the photos you want to keep.
- Aries for iPhone: see the app, permissions, and account controls in one place.
Use a 15-minute test before paying
A feature list tells you what an app claims to offer. A short test shows how those features behave together. Use the same test on every app you are considering.
| What to test | What to do | What to check |
|---|---|---|
| Personality | Ask for an opinion, disagree, and return to the subject later. | Does she explain her view and keep it consistent with her character? |
| Memory | Share an unusual preference, correct it in a later conversation, and ask again after discussing other subjects. | Does she use the current version without a hint? Can you see or remove the saved detail? |
| Plans | Make a plan, move it to another day, and ask what is scheduled. | Does the new time replace the old one? Does a proposed plan stay proposed until you complete it? |
| Voice and text | Share a detail in chat, ask about it on a call, then return to text. | Does the same girlfriend and current information follow you through each step? |
| Photos | Send a photo and ask about it later. Request a selfie tied to her day. | Does the app keep your uploaded photo separate from the companion’s selfie? |
| Controls | Open memory, notification, location, export, and deletion settings. | Can you change each setting without contacting support? |
| Privacy | Read the policy sections for messages, voice, photos, model providers, retention, training, and deletion. | Does the policy name each data type and explain what happens to it? |
Community reports can reveal problems that product pages omit. Check when the report was posted, which app version and subscription tier the person used, and whether several independent users describe the same behavior. Then repeat the relevant test on the current version. A year-old complaint about memory or calls may describe a build that has already changed.
Compare Aries with other apps
| App | Start here |
|---|---|
| Replika | Aries AI vs Replika |
| Nomi | Aries AI vs Nomi |
| Kindroid | Aries AI vs Kindroid |
| Character AI | Aries AI vs Character AI |
| Candy AI | Aries AI vs Candy AI |
Each comparison covers the competitor’s published features, memory, voice, photos and video, where the app works, privacy terms, and the type of user each app suits.
Meet the Aries girlfriends
Meet the Aries girlfriends to choose among Alina, Yuna, Sophie Kim, Aiko, Kitty, and Madison Walsh. Each AI girlfriend has a full profile with her age, home, work, interests, and scenes from her life.
All guides
Are AI girlfriends real?The software is real and the person is simulated. What an AI girlfriend actually is, why it feels real, the honest limits, and what to check first.Read the guide 
Are AI girlfriends safe? Check the data and controlsLearn how to evaluate AI girlfriend safety through data handling, age controls, moderation, emotional boundaries, location, and user controls.Read the guide 
Are AI girlfriends worth it?A balanced look at what people get from an AI girlfriend, what to weigh — privacy, cost, expectations — and how to test an app before you pay.Read the guide 
What is an AI girlfriend?Learn what an AI girlfriend is, how personality and memory create an ongoing relationship, and what to check before choosing an AI girlfriend app.Read the guide Questions people ask
Where should I start with Aries AI guides?
Start with the AI girlfriend definition, then read the safety guide and the feature page that matches what you want to do.
Where can I compare Aries with other apps?
The comparison hub covers Replika, Nomi, Kindroid, Character AI, and Candy AI.
Where does Aries explain privacy and data use?
The privacy page explains website forms, app memory, location, model providers, export, correction, and deletion.